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Our influence as parents is vital in shaping our children's behavior from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
The relationship between parents and children is the most powerful force in shaping a child's behavior. When children feel deeply connected to their parents, they are more likely to listen to and be influenced by them. This deep connection is what allows parents to guide their children towards positive behaviors and values. Parents who are closely bonded with their children have a natural authority that comes from love and trust. This authority is different from the authority based on fear or control. When children feel this kind of authority from their parents, they are more likely to internalize their parents' values and rules. On the other hand, when children are not deeply connected to their parents, they are more likely to seek guidance and approval from their peers. This can lead to negative behaviors and attitudes that go against what their parents would want for them. In today's society, it is becoming increasingly difficult for parents to hold on to their children in the face of competing influences such as social media and peer pressure. However, it is more important than ever for parents to prioritize their relationship with their children.- Parents can ensure that their influence remains the most important in shaping their children's behavior. This bond provides a solid foundation for children to develop into responsible, caring, and respectful individuals. Ultimately, the key to shaping our children's behavior lies in the strength of our connection with them.
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