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Holding on to our kids is critical for their wellbeing from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
The foundation of our children's wellbeing rests on our ability to hold on to them. It is not simply a matter of physical proximity or control, but rather a deep emotional connection that provides them with a sense of security and safety in the world. When children feel securely attached to their parents or caregivers, they are better able to navigate the challenges and uncertainties of life. This emotional bond serves as a protective shield against the many influences that can threaten to pull our children away from us. In today's fast-paced and ever-changing world, there are countless distractions and pressures that can lead children astray. From peer influences to media messages, our children are bombarded with messages that can undermine the strength of their attachment to us. When we maintain a strong connection with our children, we are better able to guide and influence them in positive ways. Our words and actions carry more weight when they come from a place of love and trust. By holding on to our children, we can help shape their values, beliefs, and behaviors in ways that align with our own values and expectations. Furthermore, holding on to our kids allows us to provide them with a sense of belonging and acceptance. In a world where children are often made to feel like outsiders or outcasts, the unconditional love and support of their parents can be a powerful antidote to feelings of loneliness and rejection. When children feel truly seen, heard, and understood by their parents, they are less likely to seek validation and acceptance from other sources.- Holding on to our kids is an ongoing process that requires time, effort, and commitment. It means being present and available to them, even when it's difficult or inconvenient. It means setting aside our own agendas and priorities in order to prioritize the needs and well-being of our children. It means being willing to adapt and change as our children grow and develop, while always remaining a consistent source of love and support in their lives.
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