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Building trust with our children is essential from "summary" of Hold on to Your Kids by Gordon Neufeld,Gabor Maté
Building trust with our children is not just a nice thing to do; it is essential. Trust is the foundation of all healthy relationships, especially the one between parents and children. When children trust their parents, they feel safe, secure, and connected. This deep sense of trust allows parents to guide, teach, and influence their children in a meaningful way. Trust is built through consistent, loving, and responsive interactions. When parents are emotionally available and attuned to their children's needs, children learn to rely on them for support and guidance. This reliance is what forms the basis of trust. Children who trust their parents are more likely to seek their advice, share their thoughts and feelings, and turn to them in times of need. Without trust, parents may find it difficult to connect with their children on a deeper level. When trust is lacking, children may become resistant, defiant, or withdrawn. They may seek validation and approval from their peers or other authority figures instead of their parents. This shift in loyalty can have negative consequences on the parent-child relationship. Building trust with our children requires time, patience, and effort. It involves being present, attentive, and empathetic. It means listening to our children without judgment, validating their emotions, and providing them with a safe and nurturing environment. When children feel heard, understood, and accepted by their parents, trust naturally develops. Trust is not a one-time achievement but an ongoing process. It requires consistent communication, honest interactions, and mutual respect. Parents must demonstrate integrity, reliability, and authenticity to earn and maintain their children's trust. Trust is fragile and can easily be broken by inconsistency, dishonesty, or betrayal. Once broken, trust can take a long time to rebuild. In a world where children are bombarded with external influences and distractions, the bond between parents and children is more important than ever. By building trust with our children, we can create a strong and resilient foundation for their emotional well-being and development. Trust is the key that unlocks the door to a deep and meaningful relationship between parents and children.
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