Use consequences that match the misbehavior from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman
When it comes to disciplining your child, it is essential to ensure that the consequences you give for their misbehavior are appropriate and relevant. This means that the consequence should directly relate to the misbehavior in question. For example, if your child refuses to clean up their toys after playing, a suitable consequence would be to take away their favorite toy for a specified period. This consequence is directly linked to the misbehavior and emphasizes the importance of cleaning up after oneself. By using consequences that match the misbehavior, you are teaching your child about cause and effect. They will learn that their actions have consequences and that they are responsible for their behavior. This understanding is crucial...
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