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Communicate your expectations clearly to your child from "summary" of Have a New Kid by Friday by Dr. Kevin Leman

When it comes to raising children, setting clear expectations is crucial. Children thrive when they know exactly what is expected of them. This means being specific about what behaviors are acceptable and unacceptable. Vague instructions will only confuse your child and make it harder for them to meet your expectations. One way to communicate your expectations clearly is by using positive language. Instead of saying, "Don't make a mess," try saying, "Please keep your toys in the toy box." By framing your expectations in a positive way, you are guiding your child towards the behaviors you want to see. Consistency is key when it comes to setting expectations. If you allow your child to break the rules sometimes but not others, they will become confused about what is truly expected of them. Make sure to enforce your expectations consistently so that your child knows what to expect. It's also important to explain the reasons behind your expectations. Children are more likely to comply with rules when they understand the rationale behind them. Take the time to talk to your child about why certain behaviors are important and how they can contribute to a harmonious household. Another important aspect of communicating expectations is to involve your child in the process. Give them a chance to express their thoughts and feelings about the rules you have set. This will help them feel more invested in following the expectations you have laid out.
  1. Clear communication is essential in helping your child understand what is expected of them. By setting clear, positive, consistent expectations and involving your child in the process, you can create a harmonious environment where everyone knows what is expected and how to meet those expectations.
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