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Competition can strain relationships from "summary" of Friend and Foe by George Augustus Sala
The pressures of competition can often put a strain on relationships, whether they be between friends, family members, or colleagues. When people find themselves in direct competition with one another, it can create tension and conflict that may not have existed before. This is especially true when the stakes are high, such as in a competitive workplace where promotions and bonuses are on the line. As individuals vie for the same goal, whether it be a job promotion or a prestigious award, they may become consumed by a sense of rivalry that can drive a wedge between them. This rivalry can lead to feelings of resentment and jealousy, as each person sees the other as a threat to their own success. In some cases, this rivalry can even lead to sabotage or betrayal as individuals become desperate to come out on top. Competition can also strain relationships by creating a sense of mistrust and suspicion. When people are competing against one another, they may become overly cautious and guarded in their interactions, fearing that any information they share could be used against them. This can lead to a breakdown in communication and a lack of cooperation, making it difficult for individuals to work together towards a common goal. Furthermore, competition can exacerbate existing tensions and conflicts within a relationship. For example, if two friends are already struggling with feelings of envy or inadequacy, entering into a competitive situation can amplify these negative emotions and cause them to erupt into open hostility. In this way, competition can act as a catalyst for the deterioration of a relationship that was already on shaky ground.- While competition can be a healthy and motivating force in many situations, it is important to be mindful of the potential impact it can have on relationships. By being aware of the ways in which competition can strain relationships, individuals can take steps to mitigate these effects and preserve the bonds that are important to them.
