Set clear expectations and follow through with consequences from "summary" of Duct Tape Parenting by Vicki Hoefle
Parents are often told to set clear expectations and follow through with consequences as a way to discipline their children. This concept is not about punishment, but about teaching children the natural consequences of their actions. It is a way to help children understand that their behavior has an impact on themselves and others around them. When parents set clear expectations, they are establishing boundaries and guidelines for their children to follow. These expectations can be related to behavior, chores, schoolwork, or any other aspect of their child's life. It is important for parents to communicate these expectations clearly and consistently to their children. This means explaining what is expected of them, why it is important, and what the consequences will be if they do not meet those expectations. By setting clear expectations, parents are provi...
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