Be consistent in your parenting approach from "summary" of Duct Tape Parenting by Vicki Hoefle
Consistency is key in parenting. It's not enough to just set rules and expectations for your children; you have to follow through consistently. When you're inconsistent in your parenting approach, your children can become confused and unsure of what is expected of them. They may test boundaries more frequently, hoping to catch you off guard. Being consistent doesn't mean being rigid or inflexible. It means sticking to your values and principles, even when it's difficult. Consistency helps children feel safe and secure because they know what to expect from you. It also helps to build trust between you and your children. They learn that you mean what you say and that you can be relied upon to follow through on your promises and consequences.
Consistency also helps you as a parent. When you are consistent in your parenting approach, you can more easily manage behaviors and handle conflicts. You won't have to constantly renegotiate rules or come up with new consequences. Instead, you can simply refer back to the established guidelines and expectations. This can save you time and energy in the long run.
Of course, being consistent in your parenting approach is easier said than done. It requires patience, self-control, and a willingness to stick to your guns. It may be tempting to give in to your child's demands or to let things slide just this once, but doing so can undermine your authority and lead to more challenges down the road.
Remember, consistency doesn't mean perfection. It's okay to make mistakes and slip up from time to time. What's important is that you acknowledge your missteps, learn from them, and strive to do better in the future. By being consistent in your parenting approach, you can help your children grow into responsible, respectful, and well-adjusted individuals.
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