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Teach girls to value themselves from "summary" of Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

As you teach a girl to value herself, you are essentially giving her the tools to navigate the world with confidence and resilience. It is about instilling in her the belief that her worth is inherent and not dependent on anyone else's validation. This means teaching her to prioritize her own needs, desires, and ambitions, and to not settle for anything less than what she deserves. Encourage her to develop a strong sense of self-worth by praising her for her intelligence, kindness, and strength, rather than just her appearance. Show her that her value lies in her character and abilities, and that she does not need to conform to narrow societal standards of beauty or behavior. Teach her to set boundaries and assert herself when necessary. Let her know that it is okay to say no, to speak up against injustices, and to demand respect from others. Help her understand that her feelings and opinions are valid, and that she has the right to express them without fear of judgment or retribution. Emphasize the importance of self-care and self-respect. Encourage her to prioritize her physical and emotional well-being, and to surround herself with people who uplift and support her. Teach her to prioritize her own happiness and fulfillment, rather than seeking validation or approval from others. Above all, show her that she is deserving of love, respect, and opportunities, simply because she exists. Teach her that her value is not contingent on her relationships, achievements, or appearance, but on the very fact that she is a human being with inherent worth and dignity. By teaching a girl to value herself, you are empowering her to navigate the complexities of the world with confidence, self-assurance, and grace.
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    Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions

    Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

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