Parents should praise good behavior as well as discipline bad behavior from "summary" of Dare To Discipline by James Dr Dobson
Parents must remember that discipline is not just about correcting bad behavior; it is also about reinforcing good behavior. When a child behaves in a way that is appropriate and respectful, it is important for parents to acknowledge and praise that behavior. By doing so, parents are reinforcing the positive behavior and encouraging the child to continue making good choices. Praising good behavior helps to build a child's self-esteem and confidence. When a child receives praise for doing something well, they feel a sense of accomplishment and pride in themselves. This positive reinforcement motivates the child to continue behaving in a positive manner. On the other hand, when a child is only disciplined for bad behavior without any recognition of their good behavior, they may feel discouraged and unappreciated. This can lead to feelings of resentment and defiance, as the child may feel that their efforts to behave well go unnoticed. It is important for parents to strike a balance between discipline and praise in order to effectively guide their child's behavior. By acknowledging and praising good behavior, parents can create a positive and supportive environment that encourages their child to make good choices. This in turn helps to strengthen the parent-child relationship and fosters a sense of mutual respect and understanding.
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