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Creating space between partners can reignite passion and desire from "summary" of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow by Marnia Robinson

In a culture filled with images of passionate love affairs, it's easy to believe that constant togetherness is the key to keeping the flames of desire burning bright. However, this common belief may actually be leading us astray. The reality is that spending every waking moment with our partner can actually diminish the spark that once fueled our passion. At first glance, this concept may seem counterintuitive. After all, wouldn't being close to our partner at all times strengthen our bond and keep the passion alive? Surprisingly, research suggests otherwise. When we are constantly in each other's presence, our brains become desensitized to the novelty and excitement that once characterized our relationship. This desensitization can lead to a decrease in desire and passion over time. Creating space between partners can actually reignite the passion and desire that may have faded with constant togetherness. By allowing for periods of separation, partners have the opportunity to miss each other, leading to a renewed sense of longing and anticipation. This sense of longing can be a powerful aphrodisiac, rekindling the flames of desire that may have been dwindling in a too-close relationship. In addition to reigniting passion, creating space can also provide partners with the opportunity to focus on their individual growth and development. When we are constantly enmeshed with our partner, it can be easy to lose sight of our own goals and aspirations. By taking time for ourselves, we have the chance to pursue our own interests and hobbies, which can ultimately make us more fulfilled and interesting individuals.
  1. Creating space between partners can be a powerful tool for reigniting passion and desire in a relationship. By allowing for periods of separation, partners can rediscover the sense of novelty and excitement that once drew them together. This newfound sense of longing can rekindle the flames of desire and lead to a more fulfilling and passionate relationship.
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Cupid's Poisoned Arrow

Marnia Robinson

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