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Love is a conscious choice from "summary" of Conscious Loving by Gay Hendricks,Kathlyn Hendricks
Love is not something that just happens to us. It is not a force outside of our control that sweeps us off our feet or enslaves us against our will. Love is a conscious choice that we make every day. It is a decision that we actively choose to commit to, nurture, and grow. When we understand this fundamental truth, we realize that we have the power to shape our relationships in a way that aligns with our deepest desires and values. By recognizing that love is a choice, we free ourselves from the notion that we are at the mercy of fate or external circumstances. We no longer see ourselves as passive recipients of love, but as active participants in its creation. This shift in perspective empowers us to take responsibility for our relationships and to invest the time and effort necessary to make them thrive. Choosing love means being present and engaged in our relationships. It means showing up fully for our partners and being willing to see and be seen in all our vulnerability and imperfection. It requires us to let go of our ego-driven desires for control and instead embrace the beauty of surrender and acceptance. When we approach love as a conscious choice, we are more likely to act with kindness, compassion, and understanding towards our partners. We are able to communicate openly and honestly, listen deeply, and respond with empathy. We cultivate a sense of gratitude and appreciation for the gifts that our relationships bring us, rather than taking them for granted.- Choosing love is an ongoing practice that requires commitment, patience, and resilience. It is a journey of self-discovery and growth that leads us towards greater intimacy, connection, and fulfillment. When we embrace love as a conscious choice, we embark on a path of transformation that not only enriches our relationships but also nourishes our souls.
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