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Understand the different types of sexual desire from "summary" of Come As You Are: Revised and Updated by Emily Nagoski

To truly grasp the complexity of sexual desire, we must first acknowledge that it is not a one-size-fits-all phenomenon. In fact, there are different types of sexual desire that individuals may experience. One of these types is called spontaneous desire, which is characterized by a sudden and intense urge to engage in sexual activity. This type of desire is what we typically see portrayed in movies and popular culture - the idea that sexual desire can strike at any moment, without any specific trigger. On the other hand, responsive desire is a different type of sexual desire that many people experience. Unlike spontaneous desire, responsive desire is triggered by external cues or stimuli. This ...
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    Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

    Emily Nagoski

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