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Focus on connection in sexual interactions from "summary" of Come As You Are: Revised and Updated by Emily Nagoski

When engaging in sexual interactions, it is important to shift the focus to connection. Rather than solely focusing on performance or achieving a specific outcome, prioritizing connection can enhance the overall experience for both partners. Connection involves being present and attuned to your partner's needs and desires, creating a sense of intimacy and mutual understanding. By fostering connection, you can deepen the emotional bond between you and your partner, leading to a more fulfilling and satisfying sexual encounter. Connection in sexual interactions can take many forms, such as open communication, active listening, and genuine emotional engagement. It is about being vulnerable and authentic with your partner, sharing your thoughts, feelings, and desires without fear of judgment or rejection. This level of openness can create a safe and supportive environment where both partners feel valued and respected, enhan...
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    Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

    Emily Nagoski

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