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Explore your sexual fantasies without guilt from "summary" of Come As You Are: Revised and Updated by Emily Nagoski

There's a common belief that if you have sexual fantasies, it means there's something wrong with you. That's not true. Fantasies are a normal and healthy part of sexuality. They can be a way to explore desires and turn-ons that we may not feel comfortable acting out in real life. It's important to remember that fantasy is not reality. Just because you have a particular fantasy doesn't mean you want to or should act it out. Fantasies can range from the mundane to the taboo, and they can be as unique and varied as the individuals who have them. Some people may feel guilty or ashamed about their fantasies, particularly if they involve things that society deems unacceptable. It's important to remember that fantasy is a private, personal space. As long as no one is being harmed or coerced, there's no reason to feel guilty about what turns you on in your ow...
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    Come As You Are: Revised and Updated

    Emily Nagoski

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