Enforcing boundaries may result in conflict from "summary" of Boundaries by Henry Cloud,John Townsend
When we decide to set boundaries in our relationships, it is natural to expect some level of conflict. This is because boundaries define where one person ends and another begins, and not everyone will agree with or respect these limits. People who have been accustomed to crossing boundaries may resist the new restrictions and push back against them. They may feel uncomfortable or even threatened by the change, leading to disagreements, arguments, and tension.
In some cases, enforcing boundaries can bring to light underlying issues that have been simmering beneath the surface. These issues may have been avoided or ignored in the past, but the act of setting boundaries forces them out into the open. This can be a painful and challenging process, as it requires both parties to confront difficult truths about themselves and their relationship. Emotions may run high, and conflicts may escalate as a result.
Additionally, some individuals may feel rejected or abandoned when boundaries are put in place. They may interpret these limits as a sign that they are not valued or loved, which can trigger feelings of insecurity, anger, or resentment. This can lead to further conflict as they try to defend themselves or regain control over the situation.
Despite the potential for conflict, enforcing boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy and respectful relationships. Without clear boundaries, people may become overwhelmed, resentful, or taken advantage of. Boundaries help us to protect our own well-being and integrity, as well as to uphold the dignity and rights of others. While conflict may be a natural consequence of setting boundaries, it is a necessary step towards fostering healthier and more authentic connections with those around us.
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