Start conversations by asking openended questions from "summary" of Better Small Talk by Patrick King
To make small talk less painful and more enjoyable, you need to start conversations with open-ended questions. This means asking questions that cannot be answered with a simple "yes" or "no." Open-ended questions encourage the other person to share more about themselves, leading to more engaging and meaningful conversations.
When you ask open-ended questions, you show that you are genuinely interested in the other person and want to learn more about them. This can help break the ice and create a more comfortable and relaxed atmosphere for both of you. It also gives the other person the opportunity to talk about themselves, which most people enjoy doing.
Open-ended questions can help you uncover common interests or experiences that you share with the other person. This can help you build a connection and find ways to continue the conversation. By asking open-ended questions, you can keep the conversation flowing and prevent awkward silences or lulls in the discussion.
When you ask open-ended questions, you give the other person the chance to lead the conversation and share what is important to them. This can help you learn more about their thoughts, feelings, and experiences, and can deepen your understanding of who they are as a person. It also shows that you are a good listener and value what the other person has to say.
By starting conversations with open-ended questions, you can make small talk more engaging, enjoyable, and meaningful. This simple technique can help you connect with others on a deeper level and build stronger relationships. So, next time you find yourself in a social situation, try asking open-ended questions to get the conversation started and keep it going.
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