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Show genuine interest in the other person from "summary" of Better Small Talk by Patrick King
The best way to make someone feel valued is to actually show them that you care about what they have to say. This means actively listening to them when they speak, rather than just waiting for your turn to talk. Ask questions to show your interest in their thoughts and experiences. When you ask questions, make sure they are open-ended and encourage the other person to elaborate. This shows that you are truly interested in what they have to say and want to learn more about them. In addition to asking questions, be sure to pay attention to the other person's body language and nonverbal cues. This can give you valuable insights into how they are feeling and what they might not be saying out loud. Show empathy and understanding by mirroring their emotions and responding appropriately. This will help you build a deeper connection with the other person and make them feel seen and heard. Another important aspect of showing genuine interest in the other person is to be authentic in your interactions. People can usually tell when someone is being insincere or just going through the motions. Be yourself and let your curiosity and enthusiasm shine through. This will make the other person feel more comfortable and willing to open up to you. Finally, remember that small talk is not just about exchanging pleasantries – it is an opportunity to connect with others on a more meaningful level. By showing genuine interest in the other person, you can build rapport, foster trust, and create lasting relationships. So the next time you find yourself in a conversation with someone, remember to listen actively, ask questions, pay attention to nonverbal cues, be authentic, and show empathy. These simple yet powerful strategies can help you become a better small talker and a more engaged communicator.
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