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Remember that small talk is a tool for building relationships and creating connections with others from "summary" of Better Small Talk by Patrick King
Small talk is often seen as a superficial and meaningless exchange of pleasantries. However, it actually serves a much deeper purpose – it is a powerful tool for building relationships and creating connections with others. When we engage in small talk, we are not just going through the motions of polite conversation; we are actively working to establish rapport and trust with the people around us. By asking questions and showing genuine interest in the other person, we demonstrate that we value their thoughts and opinions. This can help to break down barriers and create a sense of connection between us. Small talk allows us to find common ground with others, whether it's shared interests, experiences, or values. This shared connection can help to strengthen ou...
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