Women should give men the freedom to be themselves from "summary" of Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man LP by Steve Harvey
In order for a man to truly be happy in a relationship, he needs to feel like he can be himself. He needs to know that he won't be judged or criticized for being who he is. When a woman tries to change him or control him, it only leads to resentment and frustration. Men need to feel like they have the freedom to be themselves, flaws and all. Women often make the mistake of trying to mold their partners into their ideal image of what they want them to be. They may think they are helping or improving them, but in reality, they are only pushing them further away. Men want to be accepted for who they are, not who someone else wants them to be. When a woman gives a man the freedom to be himself, it creates a sense of trust and security in the relationship. He knows that he can be honest and open without fear of judgment. This allows for a deeper level of intimacy and connection to develop between the couple. It's important for women to remember that they are not responsible for changing their partner. It is not their job to fix them or make them into someone they are not. Men need to be allowed to grow and evolve on their own terms, in their own time.- A woman is showing him that she respects and values him for who he is. This can lead to a more fulfilling and harmonious relationship, based on mutual acceptance and understanding. Ultimately, when both partners feel free to be themselves, they can create a strong and lasting bond built on love and authenticity.