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Make people happy about doing favors from "summary" of How To Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
When we do favors for someone, we can make them feel happy and appreciated. We can show our gratitude and appreciation in a genuine way, which can make the other person feel valued and show that we care. By doing this, we can create a positive relationship and make people feel positive about doing favors.- Complimenting someone on a service is one of the best ways to make people happier about doing favors. Show your appreciation and be sincere in expressing gratitude. This will make them feel their effort was worth it and they are favored by you for performing such an act.
- Think out of the box when asking for favors. Offer something they would find useful that meets their interests as well. For example, extend them help when they need it. Taking initiative like these indicates how much value you place on them and hence puts them in a great mood even before starting the favor.
- Make doing favors seems easier. Break down the tasks into achievable goals along with setting realistic timelines. Doing this will warm up the person to complete this task without feeling overwhelmed by pressure.
- Instead of giving orders, ask for help in a polite way while making sure you don't sound demanding. Make it clear that you won't take advantage of them and this will show respect towards them. Explain why this favor matters so deeply to you as it makes them seen valued and appreciated.
- Gifting tokens of appreciation after receiving help could work wonders. Even small gifts like chocolates or thank-you cards, can bring a smile to their face and at the same time uplift their confidence. People love being thanked through gestures!
- When possible, try to involve a group in doing favors for others which typically brings more motivated volunteers who are driven in completing the task. Adding a little competitive edge by organizing activities based on rewards could bring eagerness to do more favors.
