Agree to disagree respectfully from "summary" of 25 ways to win with people by John C. Maxwell
It is possible to have different opinions without creating conflict. Respectful disagreement can help to maintain a positive relationship and strengthen understanding. It is important to listen to each other's point of view and be open to considering new ideas.- Disagreements don't need to lead to a break down in communication, instead the parties can agree to disagree in a way that actually strengthens their relationship.
- We all experience times when we just feel differently from someone else on an issue but that doesn't mean we have to see them as our enemy. By agreeing to disagree respectfully, we can continue to focus on what unites us rather than what separates us.
- During disagreements, resist the urge to become emotional or shout. Instead, listen attentively, phrase your words carefully and explain why you feel the way you do without attacking the other person.
- As two people debate an issue, it's important to make sure they both understand each others perspective even if neither of them agrees with it. This way, each can decide for themselves which path to take, while still maintaining a civil and open dialogue.
- If you find yourself locked in a heated argument, it might be time to call a truce and agree to disagree in a polite way. Both sides can walk away feeling like their opinion was heard and respected, thus leaving no negative feelings between each other.
- It is ok to disagree with someone on a topic as long as one does so in a respectful manner. Respectful disagreement is better than an argument that goes back and forth without any understanding or progress being made.
- It isn't always necessary to win an argument at the expense of another person’s feelings. Realize that sometimes it’s ok to let go, to agree to disagree and still come away with respect for each other.
