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Resist the Urge to Be Overprotective from "summary" of 13 Things Mentally Strong Parents Don't Do by Amy Morin
When kids face challenges, oftentimes parents' first instinct is to protect them from any potential harm or failure. But constantly stepping in to shield them from every obstacle can hinder their ability to develop important skills like resilience and problem-solving. It's important for parents to resist the urge to be overprotective and instead allow their children to face difficulties and learn how to navigate them on their own. Overprotecting children can send the message that you don't believe they are capable of handling things on their own. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy and dependency, which can be detrimental to their self-esteem and confidence. By allowing your children to face and overcome challenges, you are helping them build a sense of autonomy and belief in their own abilities. When you constantly swoop in to fix things for your children, you rob them of the opportunity to develop important life skills. By allowing them to struggle and find solutions on their own, you are helping them cultivate problem-solving skills, resilience, and coping mechanisms. These skills will serve them well in the future when they face obstacles without you there to intervene. It's natural for parents to want to protect their children from harm, disappointment, or failure. However, it's important to recognize that facing challenges is a normal part of life and an essential component of personal growth. By resisting the urge to be overprotective, you are giving your children the space and opportunity to learn, grow, and become more independent individuals. Instead of shielding your children from every difficulty, try to offer support and guidance as they navigate challenges. Encourage them to brainstorm possible solutions, explore different options, and learn from their mistakes. By doing so, you are helping them develop the skills and confidence they need to thrive in an ever-changing world.
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