Show interest from "summary" of 101 Ways to Flirt by Susan Rabin,Barbara Lagowski
If you're looking to show interest in someone, there are many creative ways to do it! From simple expressions to more elaborate gestures, you can find the right way to make someone feel special.- To show interest in somebody, smile and make eye contact with them. If you feel comfortable enough to approach them remember to keep a pleasant attitude and be friendly. On the other hand, if you'd prefer to stay away, then avoid staring or glaring at them as this could be interpreted in the wrong way.
- Listen attentively when someone talks and respond thoughtfully. Interest does not only come from speaking but rather in listening as well. Responding with nod or comments that are based on what he/she said shows engagement and let them see that they have caught your interest.
- Flexibility in conversation is sure way to show interest by bringing topics of discussion that may be interesting to them. Strike a balance by being able to talk about different subjects and appear knowledgeable without taking over the show.
- Being interested in somebody also means getting to know them better outside of your job or social group. Ask them out on a date or coffee - take the initiative! After all, who says no to a polite invitation?
- Striking the perfect body language is another way to display interest. Good posture, uncrossed arms, steady eye contact tend to be open signals of receptivity to conversation. Mirroring each other’s actions, even down to smaller details for example the tempo of speech can subconsciously indicate mutual interest.
