Strategies to entice men from "summary" of 10,000 Men and Counting by Gwyneth Montenegro

Stop playing games and be genuine. Most men find this refreshing and rightly respond to authentic behavior.

Be confident in yourself, be comfortable in who you are, and don't be afraid to show it. Men will find a woman more enticing if she is sure of herself.

Develop an attractive appearance by dressing in clothes that fit your body shape and make you feel attractive. Show off your best features with hairstyles and makeup and wear clothes that flatter your body type.

Concentrate on developing intelligence and humor. Men appreciate a woman who can match their wit and banter and have interesting conversations.

Be genuinely interested in his hobbies and passions. When people know you value the things they enjoy, they relax and open up much more readily.

Flirt when the opportunity arises. Subtle gestures such as making eye contact or light-touching can indicate availability without seeming desperate or overly-sexual.

Exude femininity through subtle indicators like smiling, crossing your legs gracefully, and maintaining good posture. Also take advantage of relevant moments such as commenting beautifully on someone’s home decorating scheme.

Exercise and stay healthy. A healthy lifestyle makes for a great first impression because it shows you view yourself positively. It also gives the opportunity to talk about physical activities you enjoy.

Cultivate an air of mystery by appearing aloof and uninterested. This approach presents an unfamiliar challenge which can be intriguing and captivating.

Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Many women have a tendency to "try too hard.' Put your effort into developing a healthy self-image and the right potential partners will naturally gravitate towards you.