Use warning as a first step from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
When it comes to discipline, many parents tend to jump straight to consequences without giving their children a fair warning. This can lead to confusion and resentment, as the child may not understand why they are being punished. By using warning as a first step, you give your child a chance to correct their behavior before any consequences are necessary. This sets a clear expectation and allows for a smoother disciplinary process. Using warning as a first step also helps to establish a sense of fairness and consistency in your discipline approach. When your child knows that they will always receive a warning...
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