Model good behavior for your child from "summary" of 1-2-3 Magic for Christian Parents by Thomas W. Phelan
One of the most powerful ways to teach your child how to behave is by setting a good example yourself. Children learn by observing the behavior of those around them, especially their parents. This means that as a parent, you have a great opportunity to model positive behavior for your child. When you behave in a respectful and courteous manner, your child is more likely to mimic that behavior. On the other hand, if you behave in a disrespectful or inappropriate way, your child may pick up on those behaviors as well. This is why it is important to be mindful of how you act around your child. Modeling good behavior for your child also means showing them how to handle difficult situations with grace. For example, if you are faced with a challenging situation, try to remain calm and composed. By doing so, you are teaching your child how to handle stress and frustration in a healthy way. Additionally, modeling good behavior involves being consistent in your actions and words. If you tell your child to be kind and respectful to others, make sure you are demonstrating those qualities yourself. Children are quick to pick up on inconsistencies, so it is important to practice what you preach. In the end, remember that you are the most influential role model in your child's life. By modeling good behavior, you are not only teaching your child how to behave, but you are also shaping their character and values. So take this responsibility seriously and strive to be the best role model you can be for your child.
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