Avoid giving unsolicited advice from "summary" of How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk by Adele Faber,Elaine Mazlish
When we offer unsolicited advice, we run the risk of alienating the very people we are trying to help. It can be frustrating when we see someone struggling and we believe we have the perfect solution to their problem. However, our good intentions may not always be received in the way we hope. Teens, like anyone else, want to feel respected and understood. When we jump in with advice without being asked, we may inadvertently send the message that we don't trust them to figure things out on their own. This can be counterproductive to our goal of helping them navigate their challenges. Instead of offering unsolicited advice, it can be more effective to simply listen and empathize with teens. By showing that we are there to support them without judgment, we create a safe space for them to open up and share their thoughts and feelings. This can lead to more productive conversations and a deeper connection with the teen. It's important to remember that teens are individuals with their own thoughts, feelings, and experiences. They may not always want or need our advice, no matter how well-intentioned it may be. By respecting their autonomy and allowing them to come to us for help when they are ready, we can foster a healthier and more trusting relationship with them.- Avoiding giving unsolicited advice is about recognizing and honoring the autonomy of the teen. It is about creating a supportive and non-judgmental environment where they feel comfortable sharing their struggles and seeking guidance when they are ready. By approaching conversations with teens in this way, we can build stronger connections and better support them in their journey to adulthood.
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