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Let go of expectations from "summary" of How to Be an Adult in Relationships by David Richo
Expectations can be a tricky thing in relationships. We often have a set idea of how we want things to go, how we want the other person to act, and how we want the relationship to unfold. But the reality is that people are not always going to meet our expectations. They are human, just like us, and they have their own ways of thinking and behaving. When we hold onto rigid expectations, we set ourselves up for disappointment. We are essentially trying to control the other person and the situation, which is not healthy or realistic. It is important to remember that each person is unique and has their own way of approaching things. By letting go of expectations, we allow the relationship to unfold naturally and authentically. Letting go of expectations does not mean settling for less or accepting unacceptable behavior. It simply means being open to whatever comes our way and being flexible in our approach. It means being willing to let go of preconce...
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